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Came out to my parents

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by YuriBunny, Jan 26, 2014.

  1. YuriBunny

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    I was too embarrassed to say it out loud, so I wrote a note and told my sister to give it to my dad. He came into the room and showed me the note. And I was like, "Oh." I hadn't known when my sister was going to give it to him because I told her to just give it to him whenever. Then he told me that he accepts me and I'm still his daughter and all that. (*hug*) I don't know what else, I think I lost focus for a second. I think he told my mom too but I don't remember if he said he did... Anyway I'm really relieved. I'm glad everything's okay. :slight_smile: My dad even said he and my mom kind of suspected it. :lol: Anyway the conversation was embarrassing so I started crying. :icon_redf Well yeah I just wanted to type this up real fast before I go to bed.
     
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    Congrats! Glad to hear it went well for you and now you can feel free to be yourself and be happy. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm glad to hear that it went well! Congrats!
     
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    Glad it all went so well for you! I came out to my Dad today too (well yesterday now) and it went loads more smoothly than I expected! Well done and congrats :slight_smile:
     
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    You're very blessed that your parents are accepting of you being lesbian. Some people have it a lot harder.

    I hope everything else goes smoothly.
     
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    Congrats! Glad it went well
     
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    Good stuff. :slight_smile:
     
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    Yes, they were definitely more relaxed about it then I thought they would be (or at least my mom was, I expected my dad to be completely okay with it).

    So yeah, my dad did tell my mom. After I logged off my parents came into my room to talk to me about it together and my mom says it's okay and she expected it. I asked her what made her suspect it, and she said she can read my mind. XD I have lesbian aunts who I visit every few months (they live a hundred or so miles away) and so I knew my parents wouldn't be totally angry or anything.

    I definitely feel happier. I guess everyone that matters knows now. ^^
     
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    How did your parents suspect it? Did they say?
     
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    It's nice to get it out, isn't it?
     
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    Awww congratulations Ana chan!! ^o^
     
  12. YuriBunny

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    Nope, they didn't. And I'm very curious...

    Yup. ^^

    Thanks! ^.^
     
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    Hey, first off congrats, breath the free air of outside the closet. lucky it was a accepted thing for you, i came out and for a while got no support and slunk into a depression. now i have support but i am still a little depressed. im happy it went well though :slight_smile:
     
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    i came out to my mom last week, not that much of a deal because i've been sure about myself already. i just feel like they just need to know.

    she didn't suspect me though, but an acquaintance of hers told me i'm gay according to her. but she wasn't mad at it when she initially heard. she's fine with me being gay.

    but i haven't told my younger bro yet. i don't think he needs to know for the time being, he's still busy on his studies. don't want to disturb him. i wouldn't care if it happens that he does not accept me.
     
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    well im glad it went well for u cuz i didnt get any support