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Came out to all my Friends!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Kamina, Mar 29, 2014.

  1. Kamina

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    So I'm feeling really good right now!

    I just came out to all my friends yesterday at our Graduation retreat and it went really well. I did it really chill by mentioning that I have been on LGBTQ websites and that I was surprised no one had figured out yet (I've been less and less subtle lately). The reactions were priceless. These are the top 4:

    "okay yea well sorry (Yelena) but you're kinda flaming." :icon_wink
    "WHAT? NO! YOU NEED TO TELL ME THESE THINGS OR I'LL NEVER GET IT!" :eek:
    "Yea. I just didn't say anything in case you weren't and I offended you." :thumbsup:
    "Okay yea, you seemed a little bendy. Like a straw." :rolle:

    :roflmao:

    Actually some of them were holding out on me! I knew my one friend was bi, and I suspected another was pan (she was) but about 4 of my other friends came out as demi-sexual, as we were all talking. another as demi/pan, and one as asexual. In total there are 3 straight people who do not identify as a part of the LGBTQ community (those who are demi-sexual/asexual like guys) in my friends. We are probably the queerest group of grade 12's graduating this year. Also one of the straightest girls I know has the best gaydar of us all. How is that fair?

    I was also told that apparently I am flaming. People who didn't know were suddenly telling me that "that explains so much...". I hate to break it to them but if they thought I was flaming when I was actively trying to hide that I'm gay, I must be a bonfire of homosexuality when I am out. :lol:

    Anyways I'm feeling really good right now and I can't wait to get to school on Monday and not have to worry about what I say or do amongst my friends. (!) :thumbsup: :grin:
     
  2. CharlsOn

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    That's cool!! Congratulations!!:slight_smile:
    It feels much better to be out of the closet!!:slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 29th Mar 2014 at 04:37 PM ----------

    Most of the time:slight_smile:
    Good that you have such supporting friends!:grin: