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Bit by bit

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Shebbs, Aug 3, 2008.

  1. Shebbs

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    Well, I have been coming out bit by bit, and it feels wonderful.

    Well, tonight, I hit 4 in a row. Friends Shaina, Laura, Cassy, and Stephanie. :] 3 out of 4 are bi as well. :astonished: and I didn't know.

    But, here's the story.

    A few months ago, I went out with a girl named Melissa. I told her about me not wanting anyone to know I am bi, because i'm just not ready to come out yet. She said that my secret was safe with her. Apparently, it wasn't very safe. She ended up telling a few people (Cassy and Steph) and some others apparently that I don't know about yet. Well, Cassy was the first one I talked to about it. She's completely fine with it. Which I knew she would be. Laura and Shaina were next. I knew they would be awesome with it, cause they are actually going out. Lol.

    Then came Steph. She's totally awesome, and i've known her since I was little. So I didn't totally know what would happen. to my surprise, she actually asked me, because she heard about me dateing Melissa. She told me that she would not judge me, or think any less of me. Which made it A LOT easier to tell her. So... I just came out and told her. And to my surprise, she told me she's bi too, and also dated Melissa.. twice.


    So, all in all, everything went great. And i'm moving myself up... i'm now going to tell anyone that asks me. :]

    It feels amazing to get some more over with.
     
    #1 Shebbs, Aug 3, 2008
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  2. I'm glad they all took it well. It must feel great to be out to more people :]
     
  3. Bryan90

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    Way to go shebbs
     
  4. James

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    Congratulations hun :slight_smile:
     
  5. Shebbs

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    Thanks everyone. :slight_smile:
     
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    that's awesome! it sounds like everything is going really well!
     
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    That's fantastic, congrats!
     
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    Awesome=)
    Keep up the good work=P