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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Nick, Aug 6, 2008.

  1. Nick

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    Bit of background information: I go to a different school to Lychee and the second friend, but the schools are only 3 minutes walk away from each other and both are single sex schools.

    Some of you may know that skinny jeans are the reason why I am here.

    Skinny jeans: the bane of my life... or at least they used to be...

    Talking about skinny jeans with Lychee on MSN was what started it all, the questioning of my sexuality. Up until that point I had not paid much attention to the fact that I found the occasional guy hot.

    Anyway, recently Lychee has been amassing the evidence, showing it to me and she has convinced me that I am bisexual. She had to say that to me for a while before I was convinced, but now I am accepting it.

    About a week ago now I admitted it to her and it made me feel pretty happy, happier than I had felt for a while anyway. So Lychee told my other best friend after I had said she could and the second friend was also really accepting and it didn't change the way she felt about me, a huge relief as I'm sure many of you will know.

    So the other day I sent a message to the second friend, asking something and I slipped in "btw, i'm bi" at the end (yes, I knew that she knew, but it meant something more coming from me) and I felt super good about it.

    Anyway, at a shindig that they had at their school last night, someone (we'll call her "C") was going through second friend's phone and reading messages. By the time second friend saw what they were doing, it was too late...

    2F: What are you doing?
    C: Reading your messages
    2F: How many have you read?
    C: Just the first...
    2F: That's the most important one !!

    It was the one that I had sent saying "i'm bi" in it... And with phones, as we probably all know, the name of the sender accompanies the message...

    Anyway, second friend was feeling bad about it and I got told by Lychee that she had something to tell me. She told me what had happened, and I think that it is a good thing in the end... Although, I'm just waiting to see how long it is before someone at my school finds out :slight_smile:

    So now 3 people know and i'm loving skinny jeans again :grin:

    When asked by people, I won't lie to them, usually I sidestep the question completely and avoid giving an answer at all.
     
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    Good on you! :thumbsup:
     
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    That's great!
     
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    Well, that's great, even if it was accidental!
     
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    Woot.

    Well done :]

    Lychee so fully hearts you.
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    that's great news congratulations.