Hello. I would like to share my coming out story. In high school I didn't interest girls or boys. I thought that it's normal. My colleagues spoke all time about girls. I thought that it is for show only. My parents were not rich and we don't have any computer and net connection. After high school I studied on University where I meet my wife. We both were shy, and we decided to be couple. After a few years we got married. After next two years our son was born. And at this time I first noticed that I like to look guys. Then I had net connection and watched gay porn movies. After next year I had first sex witch man and I noticed that this is it what I want. When our son had 5 years old I told to my wife that I'm gay. She told me that she knew from some times. One year earlier I meet my boyfriend. My wife was cry, but she was/is very supportive. When I told my sister she was angry and told me that I have to tell everything to my parents, brother and sister. They all are very furious. They don't speak with me. Even my wife is shocked. Now I live with my fantastic and very supportive boyfriend. I decided that if they don't want to contact with me it is their lost. Today I'm very happy. I can spend (as much as I want) time with my son. My wife is happy that I told her I'm gay. It was shock for her, but now she know that she shouldn't has hope for us. Now I see that I never was straight. I can't understand how can I be so blind. Since I was 5 I heard from priest that gay go to hell and it's very bad think to be gay. My parents always told my that someday I will be very good husband and father. This is the reason I was asexual, I didn't interest woman as my friend. I thought it is normal and they just do it for fun. I do not regret anything because I have wonderful son and I met my beloved man
Wow, fantastic story! Thanks for sharing. Do you know other Gay/Lesbian people in Poland? Do you think most young LGBT people travel to western Europe to live/work away from their families?
Pretty interesting story, it's always hard for me to imagine what life is like in such a religious country as Poland (if that really is true) And you also have a son of your own blood and flesh, so yes you should be proud of that!
Yes I know several gays in Poland. A lot of LGBT people leave country and start to live and work on Western Europe. I always want to leave Poland and move to UK or New Zeland. I stay in Poland because my boyfriend didn't want to move. And I decided to open small company. Poland is not good country for nobody especially for LGBT people. But if my business will crash I will move to Western Europe. I don't want to live in country where I don't have any rights and some politics sad that my relationship with my BF is unproductive, sterile (I lack words - sorry). And I don't want to live in country where you earn 500$ per month and have to pay for kindergarten 300$. Poland is not religious. A lot of people go to church and after servise they not behave in a Christian way. Catholic church isa company for earning money. Long time ago I was very religious, but not now. I know priest who in church tell you that homobehaviour is wrong and next day he fucked some gay.
