A couple of weeks ago I was discussing serious stuff with my dad after not seeing him in a month(he and mom are getting a divorce and I live at mom's). So, during this discussion, I suddenly blurt out "I'm hopeless". He asks what do I mean, and I reply by saying "dad... I kinda have a couple of crushes... Two of them hate me and one is a girl". He didn't seem to have any kind of a problem with the one being a girl(he did say it could be just a phase, it's the age and everything, which really irritates me, because while I am perfectly aware of the possibility of this being just a phase, I still think that if someone says it COULD be just a phase, they don't take me seriously or don't believe me). He didn't mention it after the discussion. When I saw him again, he asked me "what's up with the crushes?" but didn't in any way indicate to remembering that one of them is actually a girl. Now I am afraid he doesn't either remember or want to believe it. I know he would never have anything against me(even when I chose to ignore him for a month), but I think he wants to put it aside and still believe I only like guys.:bang::tears:
I think you're looking at this the wrong way. He could just be seeing it as not a big deal. A crush is a crush. He didn't seem to specify the gender when he asked how the crushes were going. Even if he thinks it COULD be a phase, I think he got the message pretty clear.
I agree. You seem to still be unsure yourself, so it's probably best to figure things on your own and then tell your dad you have more than a crush.
