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heatqueen · 9th Aug 2008, 12:53 PM

I *finally* came out to my sister! About time! Took me long enough.

I would have posted this a few days ago, but there wasn't internet until today because we finally got out of that stupid bed n breakfast and into the actual house.

It wasn't exactly how I expected. I mean, I certainly did *not* imagine that she and I would be lying in a double bed in some cheap-o b and b in the middle of Rome when it happened.

Nor did I intend to tell her. She sorta forced it out of me. As it turns out, she knew a lot more than I thought she did. I thought she'd merely *suspected* me - turns out she'd found evidence and was certain.

Bascially, one day she sneaked onto my laptop when I'd left it open very stupidly and had gone downstairs to play the piano. She'd gone through loads of my documents and stuff, a lot of which were stories, many of them based around my own sexuality. She also found a lot of stuff scribbled on paper, again to do with my sexuality.

Needless to say, she also found out about my first crush, something which I was never intending to tell her (because she hates my first crush).

She told me that she 'didn't give a s**t about who I went out with', so for the first night things went very well and she was ok with it.

However, the next night, her reaction began to confuse me. What happened was she was annoying me so I leaned over to poke her, but I accidentally poked her boob (and I *swear* it was completely accidental!). I said, 'I'm sorry, it was an accident' but then she proceeded to call me a 'lesbian pervert' and said 'You fancy boobs remember?' so she obviously thought it was on purpose.

Nevertheless she hasn't been too horrible. She never says anything in the daytimes because other people are around, and doesn't really bother bringing it up at night. But I think her comments that night were a little unfair.

Oh well. at least I'm finally out to her.

Helen · 9th Aug 2008, 12:56 PM

OH MY LORDY, LUCY!!!

Congratulations, congrattylattylations, and congratumalations, my dear.

This is the best news I've had all day!

I KNEW she'd be okay with it

panda · 9th Aug 2008, 01:17 PM

sdc91 · 9th Aug 2008, 01:27 PM

Congrats Lucy!

...my brother snooped around on my computer, too... nosy siblings.

Wander · 9th Aug 2008, 03:01 PM

Wow, nice...I guess I should feel lucky not to have secret documents that might be accidentally found...good luck with her in the future.

9th Aug 2008, 03:13 PM

Hey I'm really pleased it went so well!!!

Congrats!!

9th Aug 2008, 05:27 PM

Well done and congratulations =]

We're all proud of you

silentsound · 9th Aug 2008, 08:45 PM

congratulations Lucy!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you!

Lychee · 10th Aug 2008, 12:54 AM

Congratulations :]

That's excellent

TriBi · 10th Aug 2008, 01:00 AM

Nosey = naughty

...but good that she's OK with it.

Congrats!

heatqueen · 10th Aug 2008, 02:59 AM

Thanks!! I must admit I give her credit for being so cunning because I seriously didnt have a clue!!

Orcas · 10th Aug 2008, 01:16 PM

Glad that she is OK with it. Congratulations!

Hugo Boss · 10th Aug 2008, 01:54 PM

ha ha ha - what a silly girl!

Congrats 1 down

Alexander · 10th Aug 2008, 02:16 PM

OMGOMGOMGOMG

YAYS

congrats love.

XXX Lou XXX · 10th Aug 2008, 02:55 PM

That's great!

Congratulations!!!

biisme · 10th Aug 2008, 03:30 PM

Congratulations for coming out!!!!!!

sorry about her comment tho...

Sam · 10th Aug 2008, 07:08 PM

Congrats!!!

Helen · 12th Aug 2008, 04:24 AM

Oh oh oh, lucy, say this to her!

If she does the 'lesbian pervert' thing again, remind her that brothers and sisters don't constantly accuse each other of being perverts, so why should it be any different from straight and lesbian sisters?

heatqueen · 12th Aug 2008, 04:29 AM

^Lol

That's great!! And someone else told me another one - she said 'Tell your sister not to flatter herself'. LOL

**Maddy** · 12th Aug 2008, 04:34 AM

I didn't notice this when you first posted it! :O Congratulations, Lucy! That's so fantastic

9th Aug 2008, 12:53 PM	#1
heatqueen ~free spirit~ Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 21 Posts: 6,203 Join Date: Jan 2008	My sister I finally came out to my sister! About time! Took me long enough. I would have posted this a few days ago, but there wasn't internet until today because we finally got out of that stupid bed n breakfast and into the actual house. It wasn't exactly how I expected. I mean, I certainly did not imagine that she and I would be lying in a double bed in some cheap-o b and b in the middle of Rome when it happened. Nor did I intend to tell her. She sorta forced it out of me. As it turns out, she knew a lot more than I thought she did. I thought she'd merely suspected me - turns out she'd found evidence and was certain. Bascially, one day she sneaked onto my laptop when I'd left it open very stupidly and had gone downstairs to play the piano. She'd gone through loads of my documents and stuff, a lot of which were stories, many of them based around my own sexuality. She also found a lot of stuff scribbled on paper, again to do with my sexuality. Needless to say, she also found out about my first crush, something which I was never intending to tell her (because she hates my first crush). She told me that she 'didn't give a s*t about who I went out with', so for the first night things went very well and she was ok with it. However, the next night, her reaction began to confuse me. What happened was she was annoying me so I leaned over to poke her, but I accidentally poked her boob (and I swear* it was completely accidental!). I said, 'I'm sorry, it was an accident' but then she proceeded to call me a 'lesbian pervert' and said 'You fancy boobs remember?' so she obviously thought it was on purpose. Nevertheless she hasn't been too horrible. She never says anything in the daytimes because other people are around, and doesn't really bother bringing it up at night. But I think her comments that night were a little unfair. Oh well. at least I'm finally out to her. __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Evita: "The actress hasn't learned the lines you'd like to hear."

9th Aug 2008, 12:56 PM	#2
Helen EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Inconsequential if people know. Location: England, United Kingdom Age: 20 Posts: 2,112 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: My sister OH MY LORDY, LUCY!!! Congratulations, congrattylattylations, and congratumalations, my dear. This is the best news I've had all day! I KNEW she'd be okay with it __________________ I want a window where I can see a tree, or even water... (....and the lesbians)

9th Aug 2008, 01:17 PM	#3
panda EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Toronto,Canada Age: 68 Posts: 4,652 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: My sister

9th Aug 2008, 01:27 PM	#4
sdc91 Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 22 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: My sister Congrats Lucy! ...my brother snooped around on my computer, too... nosy siblings. __________________

9th Aug 2008, 03:01 PM	#5
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 19 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: My sister Wow, nice...I guess I should feel lucky not to have secret documents that might be accidentally found...good luck with her in the future.

9th Aug 2008, 03:13 PM	#6
yahooooo Guest Posts: n/a Tournaments Won: 15	Re: My sister Hey I'm really pleased it went so well!!! Congrats!!

9th Aug 2008, 05:27 PM	#7
nodoubtjunkie Guest Posts: n/a Tournaments Won: 15	Re: My sister Well done and congratulations =] We're all proud of you

9th Aug 2008, 08:45 PM	#8
silentsound Flaming Thespian Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 19 Posts: 2,253 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: My sister congratulations Lucy!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you! __________________ ...and I can't wait to figure out what's *wrong* with me, so I can say 'this is the way I [used] to be'

10th Aug 2008, 12:54 AM	#9
Lychee EC Addict Full Member Gender: Spazmatazz Orientation: Friendspage Location: Contrabassoon Posts: 1,739 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: My sister Congratulations :] That's excellent __________________ We we we so excited.

10th Aug 2008, 01:00 AM	#10
TriBi Cheers! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Location: DownUnder Posts: 4,065 Join Date: Dec 2004	Re: My sister Nosey = naughty ...but good that she's OK with it. Congrats!

10th Aug 2008, 02:59 AM	#11
heatqueen ~free spirit~ Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 21 Posts: 6,203 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: My sister Thanks!! I must admit I give her credit for being so cunning because I seriously didnt have a clue!! __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Evita: "The actress hasn't learned the lines you'd like to hear."

10th Aug 2008, 01:16 PM	#12
Orcas EC Board Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out and about Location: BC, Canada Age: 36 Posts: 11,824 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: My sister Glad that she is OK with it. Congratulations! __________________ ~ Somewhere within us all there is a secret garden. A garden in which we can seek refuge when times are rough or retire to in joy or contemplation ~

10th Aug 2008, 01:54 PM	#13
Hugo Boss Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: London Age: 24 Posts: 155 Join Date: May 2008	Re: My sister ha ha ha - what a silly girl! Congrats 1 down

10th Aug 2008, 02:16 PM	#14
Alexander EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Red Hook NY Age: 20 Posts: 2,736 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: My sister OMGOMGOMGOMG YAYS congrats love.

10th Aug 2008, 02:55 PM	#15
XXX Lou XXX EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Friends, mum & grandparents (finally!) Location: West Sussex Age: 20 Posts: 452 Join Date: May 2008	Re: My sister That's great! Congratulations!!!

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10th Aug 2008, 03:30 PM	#16
biisme Call me Katie Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Ask me and I'll tell you. Location: Lincoln, Rhode Island Age: 21 Posts: 8,123 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: My sister Congratulations for coming out!!!!!! sorry about her comment tho... __________________ From BIG problems to little problems, from broken hearts to broken shoelaces, I really do care. Feel free to PM me anytime about anything. I want to know.

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Sam "define normal" Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: out to most, ask and I'll tell Location: Oklahoma Age: 26 Posts: 1,206 Join Date: Aug 2006	Re: My sister Congrats!!! __________________ Love knows no gender, it has no boundaries, it is blind yet everyday I wake up to a world of hate and little acceptance, it's sad that I'm hated not for who I am but for who I love~ me (Sam)

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Helen EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Inconsequential if people know. Location: England, United Kingdom Age: 20 Posts: 2,112 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: My sister Oh oh oh, lucy, say this to her! If she does the 'lesbian pervert' thing again, remind her that brothers and sisters don't constantly accuse each other of being perverts, so why should it be any different from straight and lesbian sisters? __________________ I want a window where I can see a tree, or even water... (....and the lesbians)

12th Aug 2008, 04:29 AM	#19
heatqueen ~free spirit~ Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 21 Posts: 6,203 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: My sister ^Lol That's great!! And someone else told me another one - she said 'Tell your sister not to flatter herself'. LOL __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Evita: "The actress hasn't learned the lines you'd like to hear."

12th Aug 2008, 04:34 AM	#20
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 22 Posts: 8,484 Join Date: Mar 2008 Tournaments Won: 4	Re: My sister I didn't notice this when you first posted it! :O Congratulations, Lucy! That's so fantastic __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.