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I did it! I just came out to my mom

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by confuseduser99, May 25, 2014.

  1. confuseduser99

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    Thanks for the advice, support and help everyone! I just finished talking to my mom! I told her that I'm gay. She accepts it. While she is a little disappointed because obviously she would have wanted a "normal" straight son, she said "you are what you are. You have to love to make yourself happy". She also told me how virtually EVERYONE (family, friends, neighbours) thought that I was gay. She also said how she's had her suspicions, and recently (within the past two years) she's been thinking about me gay gay on a DAILY basis (LITERALLY, my mom said it would cross her mind DAILY).

    It feels AMAZING getting it off my chest. I feel so relieved right now! Thanks again everyone!
     
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    CONGRATULATIONS! :slight_smile: :slight_smile: :slight_smile:

    I'm so happy to hear you pushed yourself to go through with this and that your mom is accepting! I can't imagine how much relief that must provide. Enjoy having the freedom to be yourself and seek happiness! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! It's great that you finally got over that hurdle.
     
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    Awesome! Congratulations!
    You can follow your dreams now with a little less fear in your heart.

    Peace be with you.
     
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    Awesome!!! Really happy for you!!!
     
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    Congratulations!

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    I was understating it! You must feel so great, and I confratulate you 1000000 times
     
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    That's great!!!! Now you definitely understand how I felt after telling my mom :grin:
    It feels great and you feel so weightless, I'm sure you feel like in the clouds right now, and all your nervousness is no where to be seen.

    Congrats!!!!!! (*hug*)
     
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    Yayyyyyy!!!! So happy for you!!!
     
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    Well done!!
     
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    THANKS EVERYONE!!! (&&&)

    Yup! It feels great! Hopefully things will only go up from here on out!

    Thanks (*hug*)
     
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    YAY!! Congratulations, that is awesome!!!
     
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    Congrats dude! (*hug*)
     
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    Thanks! (*hug*)
     
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    Like I said in the other thread, CONGRATS! You're amazing, and I'm super proud of you! :slight_smile: I know that feeling of having something huge off your shoulders. (*hug*) (*hug*)
     
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    This is so good to hear. It gives me hope.
     
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    That's great to hear! I'm sure everything will go well on your end! You have your aunt after all!
     
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    Woop woop !!

    Another one crosses the line and another second hand closet for sale !!! (!)
     
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    Congratulations, mate!:thumbsup::smilewave:eusa_danc(!)(!!)

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    Second-hand closet!
    Brilliant, mate! :roflmao:
     
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    Thanks again everyone! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats dude! I knew you'd be relieved when you finally did it!!!