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Accidentally came out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by sailingonwards, Aug 30, 2014.

  1. sailingonwards

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    So I was talking to one of my friends at a sports thingy. We were waiting to be substituted in, but we were pretty far away from everyone else. And it was probably good that there was nobody within earshot, because we were talking about one of her homophobic teammates (whom she disliked about as much as I did) and dumb stuff he'd said.
    And she just went, "I hate it when people do that, 'cause I'm bisexual..." then she kinda trailed off as if realizing what she had just said. I didn't completely hear her the first time, but I thought I had a pretty good idea of what she had said.
    My freaking amazingly worded response went a little like "Wait, what? Am I not the only one here?"
    My friend: "Wait, what?"
    And then we both fell apart laughing.
     
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    Well, it seems like she was indifferent about it. Are you worried about her telling people, do you have feelings for her, and/or is there something else that is bothering you about it?
     
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    I'm glad it went well, even if it was an accident. It's nice to know you have someone else you can talk to if you want to. You guys can bash the straight people who give you crap :slight_smile:
     
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    That sounds awesome!
     
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    Glad It worked out (*hug*)
     
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    I'm sorry...I read the whole post but I assumed that you had some concerns due to the fact that you came out by accident. Anyway, I'm glad that you accidentally coming out to your friend seemed to strengthen your relationship with her!
     
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    It's funny how people accidentally come out and it is usually bad but in this case....
    It's great!! Congratulations. On accidentally coming out. Lol
     
  8. sailingonwards

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    We do bash the straight people who give us crap. We joke about punching homophobes with cacti!

    ---------- Post added 31st Aug 2014 at 10:00 AM ----------

    Awh, thanks. :slight_smile:
     
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    Update: we're now dating. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Wait What!? how'd that happen!?
     
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    Congratulations! Nice to hear these good stories.