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My friend came out to me too!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by -Michael-, Sep 21, 2008.

  1. -Michael-

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    Yeah its no biggy as i only know if because he gets on the same bus.


    My gaydar was pcikin somthing coming from his way....
    aha no straight person would end a messages to a guy with a kiss....especially a gay guy aha


    So yeah, he told me on msn.
    he is bi.
    Which is why my gaydar didnt pick up on it staight away :wink:
    Becuase my gaydar knows all.

    So yeah he told me.
    He said he was going to come out before christmas.

    I (without ego) got the impression he kinda liked me.
    But i put an end to that by re-inforcing i have a boyfriend aha.

    He's had one boyfriend before, but apparently he was a dick nd it didnt work.

    I knew that he wanted to talk about it, ive been in the exact posistion and when you come out to someone, or at least this is my opinion, you WANT them to ask questions.
    Obviously not "are you sure" but stuff like "how long have you known?" and
    "do you like anyone"
    So yeah, we had a lovely chat :slight_smile:
    And he trusted me with his secret (big mistake telling me secrets...but i know the magnitude of this one)

    I felt dead chuffed.
    Told him if he needed any advice or help to come running to me :slight_smile:
    aha.

    also on alittle off topic note.
    He didnt knw i was gay until someone told him...

    which fair do's i am stromo :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:...

    ...bu who the hell woud tell him.
    He said he never asked.
    So who is going around saying
    "oh yeah, the weather is nice....and michaels gay!"
    Im not bothered that they tell people.
    But i am gettin sick of being the topic of boro recently....::dry:
     
  2. Zūn Jìng

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    Gratz! But where are the chat logs?!
     
  3. Wander

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    PLEASE NO CHAT LOGS

    Now anyway, I'm glad your friend had the confidence to come out to you. Support him when he needs it, be even friendlier than before, the usual things.
     
  4. byeee

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    I for one don't mind people going around saying 'X is gay' - meaning me, specifically. Hey, it's free publicity! :wink:
     
  5. partietraumatic

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    so...you say no straight guy would leave another guy kisses on a txt. does this mean all my friends are gay?!?! we all leave eachother 2 or 3 kisses on txts and emails lol...i mean, maybe one of them is gay...but ALL of them!?!?!?!?!

    lol hehe
     
  6. byeee

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    I only have one friend that ends messages with kisses, but to my dismay he's too straight :frowning2:.
    So yeah, don't take that as a sign.