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I'm coming out tomorrow..

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by ColbieMarie, Sep 29, 2008.

  1. ColbieMarie

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    I'm not exactly sure what convinced me, or gave me the confidence, but the next time I talk to my friend, Christoph, I'm going to tell him. Most likely it will be tomorrow morning. I think he already knows. I've given him some hints, like I told him that I would most likely hook up with a girl. And I asked him if he had any hot guy friends and he said no, and I was like well, any hot girl friends? So, we'll just see.

    I hope he can keep this secret, as I'm not ready to be out to everyone yet.
     
  2. Gerry

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    :thumbsup:Good luck with that! I hope it goes great for you.
     
  3. ColbieMarie

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    Thanks. I'm nervous, but in an excited way. I hope I actually go through with it. I've kinda been thinking about it for a while, but now that I wrote it down I feel that I have to go through with it. I'm 95% sure he's going to react in a positive way, but I'm just wondering how it will go...Ah!!! I don't think I'll be able to sleep tonight...
     
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    Well if you're so certain he'll react positively you should go for it! I know it's hard saying those words and actually "coming out" but afterwards it's a great feeling you've done that for yourself and for everyone else. And it's probably the best feeling in the world when there's a positive reaction. :slight_smile: I really hope it goes well for you.
     
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    Good luck! It's always exciting, and somethimes a bit unnerving, coming out to someone new!
     
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    Good luck! Sounds like he would be okay with it, since you've given hints already.
     
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    Good Luck, hope it goes well.
     
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    Good Luck! Be sure to tell us how it goes!
     
  9. aaaaaa

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    Good luck-- I'm sure everything will go fine! :newcolor:
     
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    You go, girl. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Woot!
    Good luck!
     
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    Good Luck! I'm sure he'll be cool with it, your mates are bound to be great people! :slight_smile:
    Let us know how it went...

    Sleep well, good dreams!
     
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  13. Pepsi

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    Good luck I hope it goes well
     
  14. ColbieMarie

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    So the conversation went kinda like this:

    Me: Can you keep a secret?
    Him: Definitely.
    Me: I doubt this surprises you that much, but I'm bi.
    Him: I am not surprised, but what makes you positive now?
    Me: I've been questioning since like January. But it pretty much makes sense to me. I'm surprised I didn't realize earlier.
    Him: Makes perfect sense. I am happy you've come to the realization.
    Me: Ah, I really needed to tell someone that. It's been on my mind a lot lately.
    Him: I'm always here if you need me you know that...


    So basically it went well. I was in a really good mood until I got to work and that basically sucked.
     
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    It sounds like it went great for you. Congrats.
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    Thats awesome congrats
     
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    Congrats im glad it went well! & im sorry that work sucked.
     
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    aw, way to go! that rocks!