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Came Out to Dad :)

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by CourtneyLove, Oct 26, 2014.

  1. CourtneyLove

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    I've come out to a few friends, mostly close ones, and had pretty good responses overall, but I was a little concerned about coming out to my dad. My whole family is very accepting of the gay community, but I was nervous that they might be accepting in theory but less in practice. I decided to come out to my dad -- the one I was most worried about -- first on Friday night when he came to visit me at school. I told him I still like men but that I also like women and am sort of seeing a girl right now.

    I don't know why I was so worried -- it was so wonderful to hear him basically explain to me that he didn't mind either way who I liked. And he said I really appreciated that I'd decided to tell him first out of our whole family.
    I've been overwhelmed and scared about what was going on in my own mind, and I just wanted to tell my daddy haha. It was so nice and such a great coming out experience, and I really wanted to tell y'all!

    xo
     
  2. Rainbows~Exist

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    Well done! I'm so proud of you!
     
  3. Mirko

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    Congratulations! Glad your coming out went well and that your fears were replaced with a great experience. Well done.

    It sounds like that coming out to the rest of the family is going to be relatively easy. :slight_smile:
     
  4. JackAttack

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    Well done, your Dad sounds like a great open minded person. Its a great feeling isnt it, especially when you felt scared before coming out.
     
  5. CrazyAwkward

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    Congratulations! I'm glad it went well. You have an awesome dad :slight_smile:
     
  6. love dont judge

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    Congrats. Im so glad that it went well for u
     
  7. ForeverYoung000

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    Your so brave!!!
    I wish I had that courage. :frowning2: