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Weight off the sholders

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by dreamfinder, May 6, 2007.

  1. dreamfinder

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    I DID IT!!!!! I told my family. Most of my family was like "yah....we kinda knew that". My father was totally devastated. He has not spoken to me in like a week, but up until this point we were very close, as he has raised me as a singe parent. I belive he will come around eventually but or thats atleat what the rest of my family says. He has not talked to them about it either. but i think he will be fine anywho i am just releved that i did it!!:slight_smile:
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  2. c_jayo6

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    Congratulations....I hope ur dad comes around but its good ur family is so supportive.
     
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    Perhaps you can ask one of the more accepting family members to try to talk to your dad about it? My sister spoke to my mum and dad when I came out to them, and I think they found it helpful to talk to someone who understands and accepts.
     
  4. Jim1454

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    Congratulations! I bet it does feel good. Also sorry to hear about your dad - but if you were close before, I'm sure you'll be close again. He just needs time. Remember - you've had a long time to think about this and accept it. He'll need to do the same thing, because he loves you as much as he does.

    Way to go!