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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Ben James, May 6, 2007.

  1. Ben James

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    Well, last saturday night i finally worked up the courage to come out to my best friend who ive known since i was 5 (im nearly 18 now). I wasn't really sure that he would even have a problem with it, but i was still terrified that it might change our friendship.

    I worked up to it by telling him about the underage i went to in the city, i then worked into the conversation that it was actually for gay/lesbian people. When i told him, he just grinned and asked about it and how i found out about it :slight_smile:. Afterwards we went and saw spiderman 3, and we just joked about the corny love scenes and stuff like we usually do. He'd mentioned that he needed a little time to get used to the idea of me being gay, but he didn't treat me any differently because of it :icon_wink.

    So now that ive told him i feel a lot more confident about coming out to other friends. I'll probably start in the next few days:icon_bigg.
     
  2. CelebrityHead

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    oh wow thats really good!
    I think it's most terrifying when you've known the person for ages, but that's really cool that he's accepted you :slight_smile:
    what was spiderman 3 like?
     
  3. Jim1454

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    Good for you! I'm glad that went as well as it did.
     
  4. WheelerBoi

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    (*hug*) well done, glad it went well.

    i got a "is that it?" closely followed by a "i knew", still makes me smile when i think bout it, shame i harldy see him now...but I wouldn't change what happened :slight_smile:
     
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    Excellent and congratulations! The first one's the hardest, so bravo!
     
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    Congrats. :slight_smile: I'm glad it went so well. And like xequar said, the first is always the hardest.
     
  7. Ben James

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    Hey, thanks for the support (*hug*), reading through this forum has really encouraged me to come out. I've since told a couple more people and they were totally cool with it. One of them said he'd suspected but wasn't sure if i was just metro :lol:.
     
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    Hey ben - sorry I can't believe I missed this thread. Congrats on telling more people. =]
     
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    congrats and keep up the good work!
    Sam
     
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    i just came out to two of my friends too.
    Congratulations:icon_wink