I've been crushing on a girl since the beginning of the summer/end of school year. I've also been talking to her through Facebook on a daily basis. Sometimes its interesting, sometimes we just say stupid stuff. The other day she came out to me after a nice conversation. Turns out she's also Bisexual! . That was before me saying anything. After that I asked her, out of curiosity, 2 things. The first was what was her first impression of me. The second one was if she ever suspected that I was gay. She said "No, never... until now." and asked "Are you gay?". I couldn't deflect that question so I lied and said that I wasn't, or at least I thought that I wasn't. It took me about 5 minutes for me to start to feel uncomfortable. That became physical sickness. And I realized that I did the wrong thing. So I told her the truth. And of course she was very ok with it. It's funny how I am able to trust that person with something as personal as my sexuality and not have the guts to ask her out :bang: . Wish me luck for that
Wow. Congrats, its funny I've been crushing on a friend for a few months now. I came out to her on Facebook (she's pansexual). I totally get how good it feels to tell her. I told my friend in a very similar manner. Now if I could just tell her how I feel. We talk 2-3 times a day. Most of the time on Facebook. Good luck with your friend!!
That's awesome. I am a little confused? It looks like you came out to her as gay, or am I reading that wrong. Sorry... . It looks like you have feelings for her, but she now thinks you're gay :/ . Did you come out as bi, but were so excited with the message that you left that out? Just clarifying . Honestly though, that's awesome!!!!!!!!!!
Way to go! Coming out to someone you have a crush on always seems to be a tremendous weight lifted off of your shoulders. I've been out to my crush for a while, but just told him that I like him, which also felt really good to get out in the open. I wish you two the best of luck! Definitely keep us updated.
