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Told my Mum.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Kirk1701, Nov 27, 2014.

  1. Kirk1701

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    So I came out to my Mum as Bisexual about ten minutes ago. I wasn't planning to for a while because I was terrified of how my parents would react. But I was emotional when I got home from work as my girlfriend dumped me and it all just came out.

    It was all very anti-climactic, but I feel that that has made me more scared? I don't know what she is really thinking or how she is feeling?

    She's telling my Dad at the moment and I am utterly terrified, as it was always his reaction I was scared of the most.

    I don't know if telling them has made it better or worse, so I'll just have to keep my fingers crossed.

    Though I've got the feeling that it is going to be one of those things that is never brought up again...
     
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    I'll keep my fingers crossed for you, too :slight_smile:
    At least you have it over with and maybe your dad might even surprise you with his reaction, who knows?
    I hope the best for you :slight_smile:
     
  3. Kirk1701

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    I think I can hear crying now? :S But Mum just told me to leave them be to let them 'process'...

    I know that could be positive, but the way she said it...
     
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    I don't understand some people. But seriously that's awesome for you. I mean my parents are going to be absolutely fine but I still can't physically tell them. The fact that you did knowing it could go bad is amazing. :goodluck: I really hope it goes well
     
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    Good luck Kirk.
    Thinking of you.