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Came out as trans!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Isa, Dec 3, 2014.

  1. Isa

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    Hi,

    So I finally got the courage to tell my girlfriend. I've never been more scared in my life because I don't want to lose her and I don't want her to get hurt because of me...

    I felt like the luckiest person in the world after! She was so supportive and understanding. She even had her guesses that I might have been. She said it doesn't change her love for me no matter how I see myself as long as I am me.

    I just had to write this because I am so happy at the moment because I have the most loving 'better half' and I probably could never do this without a community like this.
     
  2. BradThePug

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    Congrats! I'm glad to hear that she is supportive of you :slight_smile:
     
  3. Quem

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    Congratulations!! :icon_bigg

    "She said it doesn't change her love for me no matter how I see myself as long as I am me."

    She's amazingly supportive! It's amazing there are people like that! (*hug*)
     
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    Congrats! (*hug*)
     
  5. Isa

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    Thanks guys! She is amazing. If it wasn't for her I would never come out to anyone I think.

    I was really really worried she'd feel sorry for me stealing her normal hetero relationship away from her. I could never forgive myself if she felt that way, I'd rather just keep it in than robbing her from happiness.

    And a big thank you to everyone here, this place gave me courage to do this. Love you all. (&&&)
     
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    Congratulations on coming out to your girlfriend. It's fantastic that your coming out won't change her love for you. Well done. :slight_smile: