Hello I'm 14 years old and scared. I'll just get to the point: I don't know what I am: bisexual, gay or straight I like girls and I like boys too but I've never really had feelings for one of those two. And at moments I'm really convinced that I'm bisexual but an hour later I'm just like no, I'm not. I can't be. Another important thing is: my parents are muslims When I talk with them about gay people they just want me to shup up. I once asked them what they would do if me or my brother were gay and they answered : "I wouldn't see you as my child" I'm so scared... I have lots of male friends and I think they would just "unfriend" me... I don't want to lose them... I've been questioning my sexuality for 2 years now and I just don't know what to do. Can someone help me? Please
You might have a look at this: Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender? there is romantic and sexual attraction... and some people need an emotional connection first... I'd say take your time... (*hug*)
As jay777 says "take your time" Take your time be willing to change your mind several times and above all be honest with yourself. You will know what your orientation when you fall in love. The real question is who you fall in love with. So take your time..... ---------- Post added 9th Dec 2014 at 04:44 PM ---------- PS it is normal to be scared!!!!
I would find the least homophobic friend and tell them. Also, I noticed the word Sokol under your profile, do you belong to a Sokol? I do.
