I don't know. Today I was pushed over the edge, I need to tell people I knew in real life in a way I wouldn't be able to retract anything. So, after hearing that Connor Franta came out, I knew I had to as well. So, I texted all of the brothers and I told them that I am 'not straight' and that I'm bisexual. Some brothers already do, but now...in written evidence...they all will know and I won't be able to lie about it or retract it. We have another bisexual brother who's kinda out and he obviously accepted me. One other brother has responded and I told him last semester, so more acceptance No one else has responded, but it is 3:40am I feel a bit relieved.
Thanks y'all The rest of the brothers either responded with support or neutrality, so all in all I'm happy to see that it doesn't change anything I am the Vice President of the fraternity, so I was worried that If I ever came out it would make things weird. I'm glad it hasn't effected their view of me as a person or as a leader.
Congratulations! It took a lot of courage to text all of your fraternity brothers to let them know. Happy for you that nothing has changed as a result and that everyone responded positively. I can imagine the relief you must be feeling at the moment.
That's a huge deal, LostLion, and I applaud you for having the strength and courage to come out to your fraternity. I'm really happy that you've gotten a positive response.
That's incredible. I graduated in May but I'm still really close to a bunch of the guys in my fraternity and haven't had the courage to tell them yet; however, one of my new years resolutions is to tell them in the first week of January. I'm petrified but I know I'll feel better once it's done. Anyway congrats again dude, that's a huge accomplishment. Feel free to shoot me a message if you want to talk more about being openly bisexual in a fraternity
Congratulations! That takes a ton of courage! I wish the best for your brothers rallying around you. Congratulations on the strength and fortitude to be yourself and let those around you know who you are!