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Coming out at 13 over text! Yay!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by MichaelIsGay, Jan 5, 2015.

  1. MichaelIsGay

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    Guys I came out t 5:17 pm Monday jam 5/2015 and here's a pick of what she said. He did have her suspicions... Not a surprise. Love her thanks bestie! I'm also a guy so...

    Well never mind. I pretty much said I was gay and she said "for real like I wouldn't want you to be unsure." Then I explained her yes blah blah blah. She said "I love you an am so happy for you! I wouldn't want you to be any diffrent. I'm so happy right now!" I asked her if she knew before and she said "well... I did have my suspicions.." Omg I feel so happy! I'm out to 1 person at 13!!!!:eusa_danc(!)
     
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    Well done. I wish I was certain enough to come out at 13.
     
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    Grats mate (hug)

    I came out at 13 and largely regret it, but fortunately it hasn't had too major of an effect on my life (well, depends on how you look at it, I have my suspicions about a few people and the reasons they've stopped associating with me. Or maybe that's because I've become a major recluse. Oh well.)
     
  4. Magnemma

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    Im thirteen too, i came out to my friend like two weeks ago. (also over text.) i know the feeling. It feels great.
     
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    Congrats guys! It's getting easier and easier to do this! Soon we won't need to worry about it.
     
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    Oh, and from personal experience, just a tip, you may want to go on a spree of telling people or whatnot.
    Don't.
     
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    Yea, should probably mention that. Take it slow, if you go shoving it in everyone's faces, some people will miss the point that you're not different, but instead think you're just trying to stand out with that. Which tends to be the downfall in some situations.
     
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    Yeah I'm starting with two people then our next month then 8 the month after and then let it spread.. Well see about my parents yikes
     
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    Congratulations! I'm glad it went well :slight_smile:
     
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    I came out at 11 and I totally get how you feel.
    It's a wonderful feeling!

    Don't let anything anybody says discourage you - this is a great start, and it will only get better!
    Plus it also gives you a chance to meet more LGBT people sooner, which will always help.
     
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    Since your 13, assumably your in middle school so If I were you, I wouldn't be surprised if the whole school knew in a few days
     
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    Who cares if they know, that's the idea I coming out lol. I know its risky but it not life threating l

    ---------- Post added 5th Jan 2015 at 04:21 PM ----------

    Lol
     
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    I came out to a 12 yr old friend today (he's in 6th) i literally was trying to figure it out... But i told him and I've made my disision.