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Nobody wants to live (a life as a lesbian), just to be hated by people..

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by adinaVerdun, Jan 9, 2015.

  1. adinaVerdun

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    ..Nobody would choose that kind of life. It's not even a choice.

    That's what I said to my friends (I brought up topic about lesbian. My effort in coming out) before they quickly change the topic. *sigh* Not a good sign.

    But it's okay. I'm still here. Living.
    I'm awesome.
    You are awesome! :eusa_clap
     
  2. jay777

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  3. Nickinthemiddle

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    Yes. I have not gotten to the pride and happiness part yet. My life would be easier if I could 'choose' to be straight. There is a word for that and the word is 'denial' :frowning2:
     
  4. gogreen

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    It's hard to say that I'd actually CHOOSE to be a lesbian, but I can't imagine not wanting to be in a relationship with a woman. No offense to you guys out there, but I just think women are amazing. The women I know, straight and lesbian both, are beautiful, intelligent, interesting, caring people. (Sigh). Yep, I'm gay. So I wouldn't WANT to be someone who was attracted to men. Does that make any sense?

    I guess, also, I haven't felt much negativity from anyone about my relationships with women. The worst I've ever gotten is some unwanted interest from guys who were obviously turned on by the idea.
     
  5. andytea

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    It's a good step. :slight_smile: