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surprised by my mom reaction

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by itsmary, Feb 20, 2015.

  1. itsmary

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    So yeah, this happened a year ago when I was 16. I was feeling blue because I wanted to tell my mom that I'm gay but wasnt ready. One day I was playing guitar in my room, she came in and looked at me like:

    mom: What happens? You seem so sad lately...

    me: I will tell you the minute before you die.

    mom: what? you're scaring me, what is it about?

    me: me, only me. any other people involved.

    mom: does anyone know about this?

    me: Yea

    mom: who?

    me: I won't tell you because you'll ask her. (my sister)

    mom: Is it so bad?

    me: I think so...

    mom: Well so it's about you and you think it's bad... Are you confused? (Shit she found out:bang:slight_smile:

    me: no I'm not...*starts crying really bad*:tears::tears::tears::tears:

    mom: Mary, I will love you forever, it doesn't matter who you love. Society is wrong. It's all natural and you shouldn't feel ashamed for who you are...

    me: ... ... ...

    mom: You are one of the best people I know and what you have just told me won't change anything!

    *1 year later*

    I was feeling blue again last week... I had already told her that I want to adopt a kid when I grow up ...so she came in my room:

    mom: I'm looking forward to meeting my little grandson *smiles*

    me: *starts crying again* ...

    mom: Mary, true love exists and you're going to live a wonderful life.

    Shittttt, my mom is the best ( and I cry way TOO much)
     
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    It's great to have a good mom.....lucky you! (!) (!)
     
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    Your mother sounds incredible. It's great to hear about how supportive she is of you. Unconditional love :slight_smile:
     
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    I know :slight_smile: I'm very lucky, I wish my dad was like her!
     
  5. I'm so happy for you! My mom had a similar reaction:slight_smile:
     
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    Good to read about other open-minded mums, society is changing little by little :slight_smile:
     
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    OMG I love your mom.
     
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    can your mom adopt me omg <3
     
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    you have a great mom, and crying is good for you.(*hug*)

    ---------- Post added 19th Mar 2015 at 11:14 AM ----------

    im a lot older than you all, but i told my parents last week and they had a great reaction as well.:icon_bigg
     
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    I know my mum is very supportive! She has been recently talking about how happy she would be if I had children :slight_smile: