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Banter turns to bisexual

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by NathanielB13, Apr 20, 2015.

  1. NathanielB13

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    Location:
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    Gender:
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    Gender Pronoun:
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Okay so I'm 13 and at secondary school. I've known I was gay from the age of 10 and found out I was bisexual a year and a half later. I hated it at first but now I'm starting to embrace it, I've covered all my bases with like a relationship and have started to come out. I haven't had the best coming out experiences as they haven't come from me, either I'm threatened with it or I'm asked and I'm awful at lying.
    But finally I came out on my own.
    I was in Astronomy and was doing something mind-numbingly boring so me and my friends chatted. Earlier in the day, my friends had drwan d:***:cks all over my pencil case. So my friend Connor says "Nat is Gay," in a joking manner like we always do. So I go "Well you'd be half right, I'm bisexual." My friends were a bit shocked and asked I was being serious and I was.
    They reacted great to it!:eusa_danc
    I told them what I was and that I was Biromantic. They asked if I fancied Rory (another bisexual)and I said no. I told them about this site and that I haven't fully come out. I used a fact and kinda slipped a secret by saying that 10% of the population is LGBT and that there was 2,Ooops. Another friend had told me they were bisexual. They guessed it instantly. I also told them about my crush Brad and they reacted well. I also asked if they suspected me and they said they didn't even though one time my mate Callum said "Bend over for Brad Nat!"
    They asked some more questions, mostly about porn and relationships and I loved it as I felt so open.:lol:
    They don't treat me differantley and 'm so happy as everything felt so great.
    So if you're scared to come out to friends, don't be. They may seem cruel to homosexuality at times but they are so supportive and you can't ask for better help.(&&&)
     
  2. LogicNoSense

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
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    Out to everyone
    Hey, congratz on your successful coming out! (!) It does seem hard to come out, but for some reason, I also came out to my friends that way. Thankfully they took it well, too. Anyway, gratz once more, and good luck with your crush! :thumbsup:
     
  3. NathanielB13

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    Thanks! It is better to start off with Banter as it makes it easier for you to ease out as Bisexual. They still have questions but I'm really happy I did it.