I haven't com out to anyone since last year and lately, there have been lots of opportunities for me to do so, but I haven't taken any of them because of the other people around but yesterday, I finally did. In band, a jazz combo class from one of the universities here came, there was the electric string bass player (by the same name as our bass player which was funny), a sax player, a guitar player and a drummer, all guys. Right after band, I had s.s. and before the class, my friend was asking me if I thought they were attractive, trying to convince a different friend of hers who I really don't like very much. I said something like, I don't think you want my opinion because it is probably not what you want right now (she was trying to convince someone that they were after all...). I fb messaged her latter because I didn't really want to come out to my whole s.s. class and she replied with "Oh okay. I'd never have guessed. You could still have a preference though. " I told her that that wasn't the question, truth be told, I thought the guitar player was the best looking, but the question dealt with attraction and guys are not attractive to me.
I am pleased she was cool with it!! Its a good feeling when some one so cool about it, I am pleased for you!!!