I came out on Sunday. I wish I hadn’t. I was in Chicago and I met this guy at the hotel. We went out, talked and had a good time. Long story short I told him that I was gay and had my first guy/guy kiss with him. Then I found out that he was already in a relationship and had lied about almost everything. So now those memories are ruined. I hope everyone else’s coming out will go/ went better than mine.
Try not to feel bad, man. there's gonna be people like that, and people will fall for them, hiding their truths. I know it's gonna be hard, but you have to try to forget about it and continue on living your life, whether you're out, not out etc.
Sorry to say this but some people are just jerks, believe me I know plenty. You just have to put your foot forward and keep walking. We will all still support you (*hug*)
I'd try to focus on the parts you really enjoyed and forget the jerk parts.. unfortunately, there are more jerks out there and we'll all run into them occasionally. One of my favorite quotes is: "Judgement delayed is not judgement denied", basically, he'll get his eventually. Tim
