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not the way i planned but none the less beautiful

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by slipperyman, Dec 6, 2008.

  1. slipperyman

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    Ok so today I got a weird txt msg from a friend who I hadn't talked to in a long time. She said that she thought that I didn't like her anymore which is y I hadn't talked to her in a long time. But that wasn't ther reason, anyway we got to talking and somehow we got on the doiscussion of whether or not I liked her as a friend. But in the end I said that even if she did like me and wanted to date me, it wouldn't work out. She got to picking and asking y it wouldn't and I told her it just wouldn't. So she kept digging and sure enough she finally asked me "are you gay?" To which my response was, ".........." When she msg back she was grateful that I did like her, and she completly understood and was a true friend. She said that the choice was up to me on whether I liked men or women. Never in my life could I have ever asked or deserved such a good friend.
     
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    Good for you :slight_smile: I am happy things worked out well and that you two can still be friends
     
  3. pianomike

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    that's awesome that she was willing to understand and support you.
     
  4. beckyg

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    Good for you for being honest with her. :slight_smile: I'm glad it worked out well.
     
  5. george678

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    Good really well done.
     
  6. ColbieMarie

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    I'm glad it went so well, but I'm not a fan of her wording. Choice?

     
  7. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    Well done for telling her. Congrats! (*hug*)
     
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    I am glad that it went well for you. Congratulations!
     
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    Yeah, make sure you explain that to her...