I came out to my friend not to long ago. A little backstory; My friend and I met last year and then we both moved. She moved to Houston and I moved to a different part of the same town we both lived in before. Because of that, we can only text. I decided to come out to her. The twist is she came out to me as pan. Here is how it went from my memory. ( I deleted the texts so my sisters didn't read them. It's her business, not theirs.) Me: Ii can't wait for next school year! I like school. Her: I don't. Everyone seems to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, and everyone thinks I'm weird for being pan. Me: That's not one bit weird! I like only girls, and that's not weird. Her: I'm glad you don't think that I'm weird. I'm so glad she came out to me, and vice versa.
Hi there, welcome to Empty Closets! It's pretty awesome that the two of you incorporated your coming outs into a text exchange about school and treated your identities as nothing big or something to worry about.