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I did it!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Agerardii, Dec 10, 2008.

  1. Agerardii

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    I finally told my girlfriend that I am attracted to men. I did it last night over the phone, not at all like I planned, but she knew something was up and wanted to know. There was a lot of crying and she is heartbroken, but more understanding than I ever imagined she would be. I don't know what happens now, but we have agreed that no matter what we will remain best friends. Thank you so much to everyone here for all your support and advice!
     
  2. Jonah 4

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    Congratulations. That would be incredibly tough.
     
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    Congrats <3
     
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    Good for you! I know it's not easy to come out to anyone at all, not even over the phone, but what you did, that took guts.
     
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    :slight_smile:Congrats!

    I hope things work out well(*hug*)
     
  6. AJWorld

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    Congratulations!!!!!! Must of been tough.
     
  7. gaius

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    grats mate, im nervous aabout telling my ex who im good friends with now!
     
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    Congratulations :slight_smile:

    I am sure that had to be really tuff. At least you guys are now best friends :slight_smile:
     
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    Wow... Congrats!
    There's one more person who supports you now =)
    that's great!
     
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    Well done!!
    That must have been very hard for you to do! I hope it turns out well for you, and that you can stay friends!!

    Good Luck!!
     
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    Congrats! You're a brave soul. I know it's hard,but it does get easier.
     
  12. george678

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    No problem and good for coming out that must be so hard!
     
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    Congratulaions on taking that vey big step. I am sure it was not easy, and you deserve a big pat on the back for having the courage to tell her. Now, you can start focusing on your needs without being concerned with the effect that may have on her.
     
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    Congratulations on coming out to her. You have taken a big step forward in being yourself and honest with others around you. I'm glad that you have decided to remain friends. :slight_smile: