Today I came out to another one of my friends. But this time it was a little bit different, after I told her, she seemed ok but it was weird. She promised not to tell anyone, but idk she seemed kinda freaked out by it. But nothing too extreme, so idk but none the less I have told another person so I guess I have to see whàt destinity makes of it.
I hope it turns out well. Maybe she just needed a little bit of time to let it sink in. Be sure to keep us updated on her.
I'm sure she'll adjust she just didn't see It comming thats all what you have to do now is keep an upbeat attitude and just her space and time. Congrats on comming out to yet person I'll have to catch up with you!
some beoble cant take another bersons coming out with some "shock" if she did not exbect it from you and you just blurted it out , then you should give her some time to ajust to having a gay ffriend or it was beacuse she was homphobic , even just maybe a bit, or beacuase she had feelings towards you anyway she will get over it in time
what im trying to say is you cant expect some one to just instantly abosrb information and react every one has diffrent ways of reacting to new information
Over the years I have learned that most people don't take news well. Doesn't matter if it is good or bad, it is a change and it take time to get used to it. So I'm sure she is surprised and doesn't know what it means yet. She probably has a thousand questions flying through he head. Give her some time and she'll see you are still the same guy and will likely be cool with it.
Its almost worse to have someone not react one way or the other. You dont know how they feel, and that can be strange, tense, and aggravating for you. But like everyone else said, give it time. Ive come out to some online friends and had them not respond with much, and it sucks. In-time though you will get your real answer, think of this is part 1
Yep pretty much, though mine was a little more generic. I normally don't read your posts. The weird colors make them hard to read.
