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I came out to my sister finally!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Greggers, Dec 14, 2008.

  1. Greggers

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    Wow, im still sweating and shaking. It feels so weird yet so amazing at the same time.

    So if you read my other topic on the support forum i said i was going to do this today, and i obviously have. I just spent the last hour talking to her. She was so, so, so amazing about it. The first things she said to be were 'its ok' and 'it dosnt make you a bad person' and they were just the things i needed to hear. She just hugged me and smiled and went on and on about how much better my life is going to be now, about how much better it will be now that im out of highschool and church. We talked about how i was going to come out to the rest of my family and friends as well. As for friends, she said if they dont like you cause of your sexual prefrence, then :***::***::***: them! As for family, she said she would be there to support me and that everyone has a feeling. I didn't think anyone had a feeling i was gay, but that should at least prepare them for it. Im so glad i have my sister! Without her i dont know what i would do. I feel so, so, so, so much better! Coming out to family is so hard cause you dont get second chances, but atleast no matter what i now have my own personal support system from within.

    Thanks for being there for me everyone! I love you all (&&&)
     
  2. Dazed

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    im glad she took it so well :]
     
  3. Nodnarb

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    :slight_smile: Congrats!
     
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    Glad to hear it! :grin:
     
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    Good for you! And it'll be good to have an ally in the family :slight_smile:
     
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    No problems congrats on coming out.
     
  7. Mickey

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    Awesome. I love a happy ending!
     
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    Congratulations :grin:
     
  9. coriolis

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    WOO! I love your sister(&&&) (well, you know what I mean)
     
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    Whoohooo!!! Congratulations. :slight_smile:
     
  11. BitterEdge

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    That's so nice to hear, I recently came out to two of my cousins and her partner (she is a lesbian), having some family back you up is so much nicer and will help you sleep at night a bit better.
     
  12. Markio

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    Oh my gosh, so exciting! Sisters are the best! She knows and everything is OK! That is so, so great and you should be very proud! :grin: (*hug*)
     
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    Congratulations on taking that step! :slight_smile:
     
  14. justinishere

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    Aww Congratulations! Its so great that your sister is there to support you!

    Love you too! (*hug*)