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Guess what...I did it

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Jersey4Life, Jun 2, 2007.

  1. Jersey4Life

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    We moved into our house on Friday and had the movers set everything up, and because they did it so fast we were able to drive to North Carolina early this morning to see our friends (I'm on my laptop). After we all sat around and talked for a few hours, I pulled Mike aside and told him I was Gay!!!!!!!!! I played it cool like you guys said I should and reminded him of all the times I defended him against the people who said he was gay and he was totally cool with it. I'm so happy that it worked out with him because he's been my friend for so long. Now I just got to work on my family, but they're still going to have to wait a few weeks.
     
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    nice one! hope it works with your family.
     
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    yay for you!!!1
     
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    Oh, alright, I'm glad you said it to him and it went well^^

    Well, I hope you will success with teelling your family, just for the right time^^

    Good luck^^
     
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    Awesome:slight_smile: Glad he took it welL!
     
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    Congratulations! Way to go! ^^ I'm happy that it went so well! Don't worry too much about telling the rest of the world just yet ^^ take in your victory, enjoy the moment! Hehe.
     
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    yay good job :slight_smile:
     
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    Many congrats to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    That is wonderful news:thumbsup: Glad to hear everything worked out well!!

    I hope it will work out well with your family!!!
    Good luck!!
     
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    Awesome! I envy everyone here who is out... I wish! Hahaha one of these days, amny many days:eusa_booh
     
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    Congratulations! The first one is usually the hardest, and it sounds like that went really well. (!) (!) (!)
     
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    Congratulations!:eusa_danc
     
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    Thumbs up and congratulations!
     
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    Congradulations...I am so happy for you and that he was cool with it!:thumbsup:

    I must say though, he accepted you because he got to know you for the person you are and that allowed him to see that gay people are not the monsters Society makes us out to be. I am also glad that you now have someone to talk to when things get too stressful to deal with.

    As for your family, it will happen in time, don't rush into anything and whatever you do don't do it as a way to get back at them or in anger.

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    Thanks everyone! It's a big weight off my shoulders now that someone finally knows. I know what you're talking about Thommthomm, I got in a huge fight with my Dad the other day and I felt like telling him out of spite, but I kept my cool:dry:.
     
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    That was not easy, I'm sure, but hang in there and enjoy the the fact that your best friend knows that you're gay and still accepts you anyway. He seems to be one very special friend...congradualtions on that!!(&&&)
     
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    congrats! keep up the good work!
     
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    hey congratz!!!