Last night my wife had my phone and went to paste something in the text box and my gay desires pasted from a site I was on earlier. So she confronted me and I finnally admitted that I have a desire for men too. We cried a lot but in the end I told her I would never cheat on her that I married her and death do us part if she still wanted me and she told me that I was her sole mate and she loves me even more. I told her I carried this burden since I was 8 years old I hate myself for not telling her before. This something I did not ask for I don't know why I'm attracted to other men. She told me I was a strong man to carried this all these years by my self. I am so glad it's out a big bolder is off my shoulder. I love her I have the best wife ever.
Congratulations. A difficult and scary conversation. Expect to have a lot more heart to heart conversations in the next while. When I came out as gay, not bi, to my wife several year ago we had a lot of long conversations and emotional hurt. But we worked through it and we are still together and still best friends. She was the first person I came out to and the relief I felt was extraordinary. (*hug*)
