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One New Years Resolution down so early! :D

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Shevanel, Jan 1, 2009.

  1. Shevanel

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    I finally came out to my sister! She's the first family member I've ever told and probably will tell for a long time. I'm really happy I got it off my chest. I've been trying to get it out of me for the longest time, usually in my car when I'm driving with her. She's 13, young but she's pretty mature for her age. We've been in sort of a "confession" marathon the past week or two. I started it to eventually come out to her but I got scared each time. I'd tell her like how like I've smoked weed and stuff and she told me things like she's been drunk and has a boyfriend, I was ready to kill her but its ok, I'm not really mad, I'm just protective I guess. But today was different. I was driving home with my sister from my dad's house and after finding enough courage I started the conversation with telling her this.

    "So you know whats funny, my friend from Middle School Asim, he was pretty cool, in my piano class, I actually was next to him at Middle School Graduation cuz of our last names. Well I found out he was gay recently, isnt that funny? Totally didn't see that coming."

    "hmmm that's funny"

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    "yeah... what'd you do if I was gay, Kristina?"

    "I don't know, I wouldn't care, haha why?"

    "Oh good cuz I'm not haha."

    Pause...

    "Yep, I like girls."

    "and I like guys ha"

    "...so do I..."

    "wait what? haha what? are you trying to tell me you're bi or something?"

    "...yeah..."

    At first she really didn't believe me at all,I told her to ask her friend (I'm really good friends with her friend) cuz she knows. and then She eventually realized I was telling the truth, and she accepts it completely, she even says its cool. :slight_smile: I'm so happy I got this finally done with. That's one New Years Resolution done! and ITS STILL JANUARY 1st!!!!!!!!!!! :grin: :grin: :grin: :grin:

    You guys have been such a tremendous inspiration and help, I love you all :grin: (*hug*)(&&&)(&&&)(&&&)(!)
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    Well done on the fast work with the resolution =]
    I'm glad she took it so well!
     
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    I know i've already told you congrats, but it can't hurt to say it again!

    Congrats! :slight_smile:

    Cute story.
     
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    That is awesome way to go!
     
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    That's great!!! I like the way that you told her too.
     
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    lol yeah, I was actually sorta inspired by another guys post, I believe it was "I think He's trying to come out?" in Support, that was the way another guy seemed to be "coming out" to him, dropping hints. so i was like, hey i could pull that off. :slight_smile:
     
  9. Yayyy I did the same thing with my sister except she didn't get it so I had to use a tv reference. Congrats =)
     
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    Aww, how awesome. :slight_smile:
    Congrats! :grin:
     
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    SO cool. It's great that your little sister, little as she is took it SO well.
     
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    haha, if I used a tv reference, no one in my familly would get it, if I was even able to find one at all, we are such a non-tv watching familly, it's funny...

    To the OP, congratz!!! that's pretty cool, good job, I like how you did it too.
     
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    I love you all, you're all awesome :grin: (&&&)
     
  14. Haha me and my sister both watched Degrassi and I was like I'm like Paige I like boys and girls. She was like me too, I get along with boys and girls. I was like no, I like boys and girls. She was like oh. OH ok. Lol.
     
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    aww that's so cute. I wish I coulda done something cooler like that. like a movie reference or something, woulda been right up my alley :slight_smile:
     
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    congrats, I wish I had the strength to tell my brother.
     
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    I'm sure you'll be able to find it one day. You don't know how many times I just chickened out of telling her. I don't know, I guess its all luck in the end you know? well you've got my good luck wish, I hope everything works out for you :slight_smile:
     
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    wow congradulations I also came out to my sister recently
     
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    Woo! Go Joey! <3
     
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    Congratulations! That’s great! :slight_smile: