I wasn't planning on telling her (or any family) anytime soon, but she asked me :dry: . I tried to dodge the question but it didn't work. Then there was a really stressful ~3 seconds where I had to decide if I was gonna lie or come clean :tears: tbh, if I had time to think about it, I probably would have lied. It went something like this (except I had to repeat myself sometimes because I kept mumbling) :bang: : [about my roommate] her: is he gay? me: I don't know I didn't ask her: are you? me: what? her: are you um.. you know, gay? me: I'm not gonna answer that her: [staring at me] me: [mumbling] I dunno, yeah sure her: yeah? me: mmhmm she was pretty supportive though and I asked her not to tell any family. We talked about it a little and she said thanks for telling and asked when I knew and stuff. It was pretty good, just awkward and caught me off guard. I would preferred to tell her on my own time but whatever. Sorry for the rambling haha