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came out to my sister

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by pde, Aug 31, 2015.

  1. pde

    pde
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    Location:
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    Gender:
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    I wasn't planning on telling her (or any family) anytime soon, but she asked me :dry: . I tried to dodge the question but it didn't work. Then there was a really stressful ~3 seconds where I had to decide if I was gonna lie or come clean :tears: tbh, if I had time to think about it, I probably would have lied. It went something like this (except I had to repeat myself sometimes because I kept mumbling) :bang: :

    [about my roommate]
    her: is he gay?
    me: I don't know I didn't ask
    her: are you?
    me: what?
    her: are you um.. you know, gay?
    me: I'm not gonna answer that
    her: [staring at me]
    me: [mumbling] I dunno, yeah sure
    her: yeah?
    me: mmhmm

    she was pretty supportive though and I asked her not to tell any family. We talked about it a little and she said thanks for telling and asked when I knew and stuff. It was pretty good, just awkward and caught me off guard. I would preferred to tell her on my own time but whatever.

    Sorry for the rambling haha
     
  2. justin88

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    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    All but family
    Congratulations! It's always reassuring to have a supportive family member. :slight_smile: