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coming out to my best two freinds.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by clip555, Jan 2, 2009.

  1. clip555

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    Hi,
    Iv been thinking of doing this for a long time, after finaly deciding what im going to say, I have got two of my best mates coming over tommoro for what they think will be just drinks, music, guitar- I want these mates to be the first people I come out too since i known them since I was little & love them(in friend way):lol:

    Im pretty scared when i think of wrost possible outcome but I just can't wait anylonger with this, thanks you all for courage, I know iv only been on site less then a week but Iv read alot and its inspired me:icon_bigg

    off to bed now, need sleep!,
    I can't wait, at same time Im worrying alot:dry:
     
  2. biisme

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    Well, congratulations for deciding to tell them! And, I wish you the best of luck tomorrow. You said you're scared of the worst possible outcome....do you know their feelings on homosexuality?

    But, be sure to tell us how it goes! (*hug*)
     
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    hey dude good LUCK YOU CAN DO IT
     
  4. gaius

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    Good luck mate hope they're as good as my friends were a couple of weeks ago!
     
  5. Urman

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    Good luck
     
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    Good Luck! That takes a lot of bravery, I'm sure you'll do great!
     
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    Good for you. It's a hard decision,coming out,sometimes.
    I give you lots of credit for doing so. I wish you the best of luck.
     
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    Good luck, best wishes that it all works out. I can empathise I have two friends who I have wanted to tell for awhile and really just want to get it over and done with and tell them.
     
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    Good luck! I'm sure they'll support you! And you'll feel so much better after getting the load off =]
     
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    youve got nothing to worry about ... true friendship overseeds homophobia .. if they are true friends of yours they will accept you . and might even change there views about gays .. GOOD LUCK TO YOU MATE wish you mazal tov ( which means good luck)
     
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    Best of luck! Im sure that as you have known them for so long and they love you back (in friend ways):slight_smile:, that they will accept you just the way you are!
     
  12. clip555

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    Hey all :grin::grin:
    just thought Id pop on and tell ya,
    So after few hours of just hanging out playing guitar and stuff, I decided then was the time, I didn't want to just say out of no where 'I'm gay', so we played a 'secete game' where we had to tell each other secretes :lol:
    So it as my turn, I hesitated at first then went on 'So, did you guys know im gay?'.
    ...They was shocked, but went on to tell me that they had no problem with me being gay, asked my the questions ofcourse like since when, am I sure and all that stuff and then we just joked around for few hours, lots of luaghs cuase I used to go out with his sister:lol:

    anyways bottom line is they took it great! ",

    two people down & thanks all for inspiration :grin:

    Steve.
     
  13. Thatsit

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    Nice, I'm glad it went well for you
     
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    Well I was going to write good luck until I saw your lastest post well done!
     
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    So glad it went well & thank you for sharing this with us -- reading your post on how it went is inspiring too!

    :thumbsup:
     
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    That's fantastic! Well done, I'm glad it went so well for you
     
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    awesome! Congratz! :grin:
     
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    Congratulations! I Am So Happy That You Have Support From Your Closest Friends.

    Good Luck In The Future! :]
     
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    Congrats!!
    Your first coming out is the hardest no matter who it is to or
    how close you are to them. I know I told my best friend and I
    freaking out.
    I'm glad it went well for you and hope for the best for you.
     
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    Good luck im sure things will work out =]