Well I thought I would take my secret of bieng bisexual to my grave but things happen for a reason. I recently pasted my desires of things I wanted to do with a guy on a website my wife later went use my phone to send a text and my post came up so she confronted me and I told her. It's a bitter sweet thing part of my is glad she knows and part of me wishes she didn't either way I feel so free like a big Boulder is of my shoulder. She said she knew something was going on but thought is was another girl. She is being so understanding she said she wishes I would have told her sooner. We have been married for over 25 years and I have not cheated on her. As a kid used to mess around with girls and discreetly guys. Thought I was done with the guy thing when I got married but recently been wanting to be with a guy again but I will not cheat on my wife so I will just fantasize unless she agrees to a 3some.
Well, now that she knows and seems to be understanding, maybe she might be open to you being able to explore that side of your sexuality?