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The truth doesnt always hurt

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by TexasRomance, Jun 7, 2007.

  1. TexasRomance

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    Hi,

    I just joined you and I feel this would be the best way to start off, by telling my story.

    I am not fully out to everyone but it is obvious because I am repeatedly asked " Are you gay?" I have learned not to answer this question because if I were to say know I'd be lying to them and myself. Well here it goes..not that interesting though.

    Well I had just come out to my bestfriend but what I didnt expect was that he would return the secret. We fooled around that night and it felt so right to be with another guy. I woke up at about 7 a.m the next morning strak naked with him right next to me.
    He was just staring at me when I was sleeping. So I stared back and we smiled. I then got on his computer (I was at his house) and sent messages to the friends I have trusted and would understand. It was a simple message in big bold letters. Clear as day I wrote " I AM GAY."

    A few replied with "really?" or " seriously?". I found it funny that 3 of them said " Thats hot! Too bad youre gay :frowning2:"

    -TexasRomance
     
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    Well - it sounds pretty positive so far :slight_smile:

    Oh - and a big welcome to EC!!
     
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    lol, Yeah, sounds great to have it that good. :eusa_thin Maybe I should come out to one of my friends that I already know is gay.
     
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    lol. I wasnt expecting him to say it back to me! I've actually done this 3 other times...
    not the sex part but comming out to a friend and having them say the same thing back to me. As to why this keeps happening I dont know...In my opinion i dont think i look goo unless I jsut got out of the shower but guys seem to like me...Im so confused why because if I dont like the way I look, why would someone else? :confused:
    But knowing that makes me like my looks better xD
     
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    You gave me a good idea on how to come out to my friends once I've told my family...send them all comments on myspace. Oh, and welcome to EC!:thumbsup:
     
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    That's a totally cool story... how lucky for you!

    I think it's often the case that we don't exactly understand what other people find attractive about us. I mean I think I'm decent looking but I've known some guys who have been really, really into me--and it makes me go, "Hmmn... weird... good though!"

    Plus I totally believe that sexual attraction is partially based on pheromones--that is, has nothing to do with visual cues like looks. I think it explains a lot of the times when people are just like "Oh he and I have really good chemistry!"
     
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    That's a great story. I'm glad it turned out well for you. :slight_smile:
     
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    yeah but its often debated on whether or not humans give off phermones....
    every other animal does...so im sure we do.
     
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    :smilewave Welcome to EC:smilewave

    I hope you enjoy your stay and that we can help if you need it. We are very friendly and supportive!!!:thumbsup: (&&&) (&&&)
     
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    :grin:
     
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    lol! Three times, you lucky dog!:icon_wink
     
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    lol...
    hmmm
    i wonder why the meaning of words change...
    gay meant happy --> homo? where did the leap come from??? :evil:
     
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    Who knows? Probably Paul.

    Gay---> homosexual.... that isn't a bag thing! Hahaha, I think it is a good thing we are known as happy. :icon_bigg
     
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    lol
    happy...um so this is what i think happened
    *guy 1 walks into the room*
    * guy 2 jumps for joy!!!*
    guy 1 says,
    " i think someone is a little too excited" aka like a homo...
    i.e gay = homo?
     
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    I could accept that as the reason...LOL:icon_lol: :icon_lol:
     
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    YA very lucky lol
     
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    compliment?! lol

    good ^^ (!)
     
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    Good explanation! :lol:
     
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    hmm lets change the quote though...
    " i think someone is a little to gay to see me"