Hi, I just joined you and I feel this would be the best way to start off, by telling my story. I am not fully out to everyone but it is obvious because I am repeatedly asked " Are you gay?" I have learned not to answer this question because if I were to say know I'd be lying to them and myself. Well here it goes..not that interesting though. Well I had just come out to my bestfriend but what I didnt expect was that he would return the secret. We fooled around that night and it felt so right to be with another guy. I woke up at about 7 a.m the next morning strak naked with him right next to me. He was just staring at me when I was sleeping. So I stared back and we smiled. I then got on his computer (I was at his house) and sent messages to the friends I have trusted and would understand. It was a simple message in big bold letters. Clear as day I wrote " I AM GAY." A few replied with "really?" or " seriously?". I found it funny that 3 of them said " Thats hot! Too bad youre gay " -TexasRomance
lol, Yeah, sounds great to have it that good. :eusa_thin Maybe I should come out to one of my friends that I already know is gay.
lol. I wasnt expecting him to say it back to me! I've actually done this 3 other times... not the sex part but comming out to a friend and having them say the same thing back to me. As to why this keeps happening I dont know...In my opinion i dont think i look goo unless I jsut got out of the shower but guys seem to like me...Im so confused why because if I dont like the way I look, why would someone else? But knowing that makes me like my looks better xD
You gave me a good idea on how to come out to my friends once I've told my family...send them all comments on myspace. Oh, and welcome to EC!
That's a totally cool story... how lucky for you! I think it's often the case that we don't exactly understand what other people find attractive about us. I mean I think I'm decent looking but I've known some guys who have been really, really into me--and it makes me go, "Hmmn... weird... good though!" Plus I totally believe that sexual attraction is partially based on pheromones--that is, has nothing to do with visual cues like looks. I think it explains a lot of the times when people are just like "Oh he and I have really good chemistry!"
yeah but its often debated on whether or not humans give off phermones.... every other animal does...so im sure we do.
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lol... hmmm i wonder why the meaning of words change... gay meant happy --> homo? where did the leap come from??? :evil:
Who knows? Probably Paul. Gay---> homosexual.... that isn't a bag thing! Hahaha, I think it is a good thing we are known as happy. :icon_bigg
lol happy...um so this is what i think happened *guy 1 walks into the room* * guy 2 jumps for joy!!!* guy 1 says, " i think someone is a little too excited" aka like a homo... i.e gay = homo?