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I came out to myself

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by pastelwyvern, Oct 25, 2015.

  1. pastelwyvern

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    I finally have realized and accepted my own sexuality after some horrible questioning and doubting. I AM BISEXUAL. It feels so liberating to just know definitely who I am. I know I don't have to identify as anything if I don't want to, but I am completely a bisexual.
    I figured it out last night. I was thinking about a girl from school and what it would be like to be together, to kiss and hold hands and all that, and something just clicked. It felt right. The words "I am bisexual" feel right. I am on top of the world. I'm just rambling at this point, but I want to share how great this is. Here begins a new part of my life.

    To anyone out there questioning, you are not alone. You'll figure this out, I promise. There's no pressure, you don't have to identify as anything by a certain age. It'll be okay.
     
  2. Serperior

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    (*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)
    Congrats on finding out <3
     
  3. YuriBunny

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    Happy for you~! ^.^
     
  4. Invidia

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    Congratulations!! :slight_smile: That's super great! <3
     
  5. katcatastrophe

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    Yay! Congratulations! :grin:
     
  6. Mirko

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    Hi there! Thank you for sharing your story, and congratulations on accepting yourself. You are right that self-acceptance does begin a new chapter in your life, a chapter that will see you being perhaps more yourself around others, and become comfortable with coming out to others. You have done the hard-part! :slight_smile: