It was the most hardest thing for me, and I tried my best not to cry. She started to assume things when I cut all my hair off and started wearing clothes from the mens aisle... And she kept asking "are you becoming a boy???" And I kept saying no because I wasnt ready to talk about it. But I soon told her in the car one day when she was driving me home from college. And, It's hard to explain her reaction. She seemed...to accept it but not support it. She was making me feel somewhat guilty for feeling that way "having kids will be hard and adoption isnt easy" "How will relationships work out for you? You won't be a lesbian or gay person you are trans" "You know your father is very homophobic...how are you going to tell him this" And well, she just was being negative and it was hard, but she is still trying to help me. But doesnt want me doing anything till I tell my dad because she's nervous about that. Its been a roller coaster
