1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

My next 'outing' event!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by kayar, Feb 2, 2009.

  1. kayar

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 29, 2009
    Messages:
    94
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    East London / Essex area, U.K.
    Hey guys. I'm an older guy who's only previously had straight experiences and straight relationships. No, I'm not gay curious - I'm gay! I've so far previously only 'come out' to my counsellor (therapist), and you guys. I've not yet had any gay sexual experiences, but have a high level of personal awareness and I'm sure I now know my sexual identity.

    I'm a regionally elected member of a UK national charity's advisory panel, and I will be attending a weekend training/quarterly panel meeting event in Leicester (uk) at the end of March. I have decided that I want to use this time as the next stage in my 'coming out' journey. I trust my colleagues on the advisory panel to be supportive and unpredudiced, thus making my 'coming out' to them a satisfying and encouraging occasion. Hopefully a wise choice in what is still very much the beginning part of my journey. That's not to say I don't already feel apprehensive and somewhat nervous about what I plan to do - but that just confirms me as human, right?

    What do you think?

    Responses enthusiastically welcomed - I neither have a closed mind nor permanenetly entrenched opinions.

    :kiss:
     
  2. tallship

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 15, 2009
    Messages:
    114
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    London
    Go for it ,your braver man than I am but I'm right with you in spirit. Take care
     
  3. EM68

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 19, 2008
    Messages:
    3,265
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Stoughton, Massachusetts USA
    Good luck! I am working on coming out to my family and a few friends.
     
  4. Steve

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    May 30, 2008
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Born in australia, but now living some where else
    Gender:
    Male
    thats great i wish you alot of luck
     
  5. Charles Marcus

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 18, 2009
    Messages:
    28
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Latvia, Riga
  6. Mickey

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2008
    Messages:
    1,669
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Massachusetts
    I wish ALL of you that are coming out,the very best.