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I can't believe it

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Book addict, Jan 25, 2016.

  1. Book addict

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    Hey!
    So just a few hours ago I came out to 3 of my friends, I was highly stressed out!!
    I did it step by step, first to my first friend and on and on! I have to add they all are three girls!
    The three of them took it very well and said to me that it wouldn't change our friendship at all. I also made them promise to not tell anybody else about me because I'm not ready and were very supportive! They are wonderful! I'm happy and a little scared 'cause I'm afraid that one day they will say something but they told me they wouldn't! So it reassures me!
    So the first one was really supportive and feels (apparently) very glad that she was the first to know about me. The second one too, and even told me that apparently she already knew, that she had suspicions. And the third one was really supportive too!
    It's really weird, I'm happy and stressed out in the mid time!
    I also want to THANK E.C. because you all helped me even though you didn't have to!
    THANK YOU!
    I just want to add that I'm not ready for telling others and my family but feel very happy to have "confessed" myself to these amazing girls!!!
    This is like a new start!
    Thank you!
    Book addict
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    Aww congratulations!! :icon_bigg I'm happy for you! :icon_bigg
     
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    Thanks!!! (*hug*)
     
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    That's awesome! Congrats!
     
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    Thaaaank yoooou!!! (*hug*)
     
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    Congratulations! Good for you!
     
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    Congratulations. Im glad you have friends that are supportive :slight_smile: Thank them for understanding LGBT :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm so glad that you're friends are accepting (*hug*)
    well done, you certainly have guts!
     
  9. Book addict

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    Thanks! Yeah I feel so happy!! :icon_bigg

    "Gay1234

    Congratulations. Im glad you have friends that are supportive Thank them for understanding LGBT "

    Thanks!! Yeah I can't thank them enough!!! :wink:

    "FoxEars

    I'm so glad that you're friends are accepting
    well done, you certainly have guts!"

    Thanks!!! I don't know if I really have guts since I know that, for the moment, I can't come out to anyone else! But it's a start! =)
     
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    That is awesome! I'm so glad you have such supportive friends, that means a lot! :grin:. Congratulations! (!)
     
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    That's awesome! Hope everything goes well for you later in the coming out process, the most important part was having a supportive friend base in case you get kicked out/need to leave, which unless your parents are really unaccepting of gay/bi people you shouldn't worry, even if they tell you that you aren't.
     
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    That's amazing! Good for you, I, like many other people on here know the stress from coming out to people you care about, it's so awesome that you managed to do it though! :eusa_clap