Hello all! Since I came out to my parents in early December of 2015, I would say that things have improved at home and I also feel like I am living a true and honest life - the life I thought I would never see. Being more open about my sexuality over the past 3-4 months have changed me for the better and even have had some positive things come out of it including: -Meeting a girl who I now really like and will be my girlfriend soon! -Kissing a girl for the first time -Having a proper love connection with someone that's not one sided -I came out to 2 other friends only to find out that both of them are also gay and in a relationship!! -My friendships with people are more stronger because I'm not hiding anything -I'm more closer to my mum because once again, I'm not hiding anything -I'm more open about myself (acceptance) And probably more but I can't think of any now! So basically what I'm saying is that coming out to more people has been amazing for me - it definitely has opened up a few more doors in my life and has made me more happier. Don't let anyone force you to come out - do it at your own pace and when you know you're safe. If you have to wait till you're 18 and/or independent, then maybe think of some alternatives but remember that you will always be loved even if you don't feel it.
:eusa_danc:eusa_danc:eusa_danc:eusa_danc That's superb! Really, I don't even know you and I feel so proud of you. My chest is swelling up with pride. I'm thrilled to the bones to hear you are having a great experience, getting along with your mom more, and on your way to having a relationship. I'm actually a little jealous, but hey, my time will come, and I wish you all the happiness in the world.
I'm really happy for you. It's great your family and friends are so supportive and love you so much. Congratulations. I agree with coming out to people on your own terms and everything. That is very important. Al though in some cases I don't think alternatives really exist, like for instance in mine. I came out to an online friend who lives in another country only because I couldn't come out to my family or friends at all. It is sad, but it's reality. I'm sure coming out to someone else was my alternative, but I didn't see it that way. Just my opinion.