I just came out to my little sister!!!!!!!!!!!!! We were riding in my car and we started talking about my ex-girlfriend (the one my mom was pushing on me) and I was telling her that I wasnt attracted to my ex anymore. And my sister was like "why?" and I said because I like guys. I told her that Im still trying to figure everything out, but that I def like guys. She kind of laughed, but she said she was happy that I told her. Then she started asking me what kind of guys I was attracted to, and we talked about who was hot, and what not. I feel so much better and relieved. Oh my gosh I am so happy. She told me that she loves me. But we both agreed not to mention anything to my mom. I am planning on telling my best friend (a girl) on Wed at lunch. I hope I dont chicken out. Thanks EC for all the advice and support. I took my first step out of the closet and I feel great.
Congrats!! My sister was the first one in my family I told. It was a great feeling. From reading this thread and others, sisters are awesome. Now if we can get our brothers to react the same way. :dry: One thing that I found is that is was a bit weird at first talking about guys with her. I guess I will get used to it.
Congratulations on coming out to your sister! Glad that it went sooo well! No worries! You will be able to come out to your best friend. You took a huge step, which will give you some courage to come out to her. You could start a similar conversation, if you have talked with your best friend about your ex-girlfriend. You could for example start the conversation by saying, 'I wanted to let you know the real reason for why I am no longer with my ex. I know I can trust you with this. I'm questioning my sexual identity. I am attracted to guys.' Remember though, even if you don't come out to her on Wednesday, that's okay! Another opportunity will present itself! Oh....don't forget to change your out status!!
I think thats how I will start it. I think she'll take it well too. And yea I gotta change my out status!!!!(!)
That's great! Especially considering I got the impression your whole family was homophobic. And trust me it's a good sign when they ask questions like who you find hot. Even if you're uncomfortable, the fact that they're not ends up making you more comfortable, lol. It's when you come out and then the subject never comes up again that bothers me, the constant questions I'm fine with.
