intro to coming out

ok so i am on my cell phone right now at work so have to be brief....just saying my friend returned the email, ill post the details tonight after i see friday 13...let the suspense start to mount.

 

ok so i saw friday the thirteenth and it was pretty cool..not good, but entertaining and paid pretty good homage to the original. Oh i guess you probably want to know what happened, so here is copy of the email...it was pretty good, i talked to him on the phone and we dance around the topic a bit, but he asked me how i was feeling, and i said i may sleep tonight and he said good because that shit shouldnt bother you. so we are hanging out satueday and he said we can talk more, and he had some things that would make me feel better. so with out further a do...

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Dan,
I have quietly suspected and have already accepted this in my mind. As you know, I am your closest and Best freind and your sexuality will not change that at all. I am closer to you then my brothers. My opinion on this will probably make you feel better; as far as I'm concerned sexuality is such a small part of life. It is really a biological thing, and does not reflect the heart, emotion, spirituality, freindship and all the rest of it, one iota. You may or may not know, but I have not always fit perfectly in the heterosexual "I need to fuck a cheerleader" category. I am definately not gay, but I have my own little quirks. But this is good man because if you are honest with me you can be honest with yourself. As far as being honest with everyone, you dont have to go there if youre not comfortable. Remember with sexuality (and I've researched this) there are such things as fetishes and fantasy (something that turns you on) versus compatibility, finding someone you want to spend your life with. Yeah, well lets get together though before Sunday to hang out, play FIFA. I dont want things to change between you and I but I am sooo glad you told me. I wont tell anyone; I think there is no need.

Love ya man,
Nick


optimistic eh...alright i am going to get naked and hop in the shower..i know you wanted to know that

 

the best...i feel so relieved, but a bit afraid bc i have a couple more people i want to tell, but i think my buddy will help me out...i am thinking about showing him this sight