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Awkward coming out to online friends

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Conquistar, Apr 28, 2016.

  1. Conquistar

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    Location:
    Illinois
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Questioning
    Out Status:
    A few people
    The wikia users name will be altered.
    The wikia is a larger one.
    I knew them for about 6 months
    My sister went into my account when I forgot to log out and she went in the chat for 3 seconds until I took my account back,
    Me(sisterIsControlingIt):I am gay
    Admin1: wow
    Me (me back in control):I AM NOT GAY! MY SISTER TOOK CONTROL OF MY ACCOUNT!
    HeadOfAdmins:.-.
    Admin1:-_-
    Me: WTF, I am not gay.
    Admin1:k
    HeadAdmin:lol, ok

    -At this time, I saw that a person who was a pansexual man logged on. He was the only one who knew my secret.
    --Euman joined the chat!--
    EUman: Hmmm, you are gay now. ;-)
    Me:no
    EUman:Sure ;-)
    Me: dude.
    At this time we entered a private conversation.
    Me: Dude, I you know I am bi, but please, I am not gay, I like girls too. Please don't tell anyone that I am gay or bi. At least if you have to tell them, say I am bi. BUT PLS DON'T TELL ANYONE.
    EUman: ok. but only if you send me nudes!
    Me: No, It is illegal, VERY ILLEGAL
    EUman:Not here!
    Me: NO
    EU: I put a screenshot of this conversation on our skype group!
    Me: -_-

    So now the first few people know, I still won't my profile to say "Out to some". Most of the people knew by then, and I am still trying to convince myself I AM BI. This was very awkward as his screenshot included the "nudes" talk. I am sure he was being funny, but It was awkward to talk about when others find out.
    So yea, 5 people know now outside the site, but none in real life. It is a lot harder to do this than I thought, and in the end, I am glad it happened as even though I never met these people face to face, it felt good to let them know! :icon_bigg
     
  2. YermanTom

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    Location:
    Co Wicklow Ireland
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Well handled!

    And it is scary, so give yourself a lot of praise!
    (*hug*)