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To my best friend!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Chronocide, Feb 24, 2009.

  1. Chronocide

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    My friend and I were walking home from the gym around 7:30 pm. It was dark, peaceful and he was talking about a friend of his that gay. I just kind of Fuck it, since we're on the topic... I've come to the realization I'm bisexual.

    He gave me the, Are you sure? and You know, all guys are kind of gay.

    I told him that I was sure. I told him it wasn't some sort of Hey, I think I'll be bisexual today!. I told him that he was like a brother to me, and I was absolutely sure. He finally accepted it and we talked about how amazingly funny it would be to fuck with a homophobic friend of ours.

    The only thing that bothers me, is that I told him I was bisexual. Now, that's not a lie, but I've gotten to the point where I think I am more gay than bi. I guess I'll tell him when I'm absolutely sure.

    This feels great! Now, for everyone else...

    P.S: I told him about EC and how much you've helped me. Thank you all so much!
     
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    Congrats!
     
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    Congrats! :slight_smile:

    He sounds like a cool guy!
     
  4. Crackajack

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    I need more friends like that, Congratulations :slight_smile:
     
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    Woop woop.....jumping up and down and doing some backflips for you (well figuratively speaking; my gymnastic skills are non-existant)!!!!!
     
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    Good Job! Congrats!
     
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    good job! your friend sounds pretty kick ass. and yes, it would b fun to mess around with your homophobe friend. :slight_smile:
     
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    Yay! You're lucky to have a good friend like that. :]
     
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    A lot of us are unsure whether we're totally gay or bi, but what does it matter, you've told him you like driving different kinds of cars, he get's the message. And it's great you have someone like him. That is what a true friend does - accepts you with all the warts and wrinkles. Walk Proud...
     
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    Ha ha! That's awesome! It's great when your friends "pass the test" of you telling them who and what you are, and they remain your friends.

    Awesome!
     
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    Congratulations! Glad it went well and that he accepted you. :slight_smile:
     
  12. Chronocide

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    Yeah, he's a great guy. There is a slight awkwardness in the air when we speak, but it will pass I'm sure.
     
  13. Filip

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    Well, you can't avoid some awkwardness. It's a new thought for him too.

    In any case congrats! The first step is always the hardest!