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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by limfjord96, Mar 1, 2009.

  1. limfjord96

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    Ok,

    So i wrote a letter to my mother and decided to leave it in front of my brother room with a note saying please read. And here is what he said:

    "dude you never have to apologize for who you are or how you feel. Just know that you are and always will be my best friend....and by default my white belt wearing little brother. i have much respect for you and i have always joked that you are the onle one of us (he said our last name) that never fucked up.....you are still the perfect son you bastard. this changes nothing for anyone, except mayeb you can be happier now. I love you know matter what."

    it gives me chills when i hear it. And now i am going to email the letter to my mom because i just dont give a fuck anymore. My brother and I talked abit and he said now looking back that he suspected a few times, but wrote it off. And he was so mad at himself for not seeing how much pain i was in. And he hated my best friend for not telling him that i was so drepressed that i was suicidal...so i am pretty happy and i hope this encourages everyone to just say FUCK IT and do it. i feel so much better now, and will sleep well for once. And then we went on talking about prop 8 and all that shit, so now i feel that my besy friends and my big brother know, then who the hell cares about anyone else. I feel like crying i am so happy....and it is 90 degrees and sunny outside, its like an omen...i love you all and i hope this story brings you as much happiness as it does me. I will post the letter i sent to my mom after she replies, i dont want to change it, so i wont show you guys because i want it to be unscripted.

    thanks Guys


    Dan
     
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    Yeah I'm so pleased for you , and hey tell your bro he is really cool , ye gods I sound like an old hippy :grin: :thumbsup:
     
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    Congrats! I am glad to see your mood is happy! :thumbsup: You must feel so relived. Keep us up to date with what happens.
     
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    Yay !! Congrats on coming out, Im glad it went so well for you. Let's just hope your mother takes the news just as well. :grin:
     
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    That's great!!!

    Now you can live your life!
     
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    Awesome! What a fantastic brother you've got and all the best with your mom.
     
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    Congrats! There's nothing like that "fuck it, who cares!" feeling! :thumbsup:

    Keep us posted on how you mom reacts.

    And don't be afraid of posting the letter. It's not as if we'll by flying to San Diego en masse to change the things we don't like :lol:
     
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    Dude! Congrats, that's really awesome!
     
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    That's an awesome response. :slight_smile:
     
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    Dan your fucking amazing! Congrats dude!
     
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    I'm really happy for you. Congrats! :slight_smile:
     
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    Yay Dan. I'm truly happy :grin:
    now my turn is coming up....
     
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    Dan dude I'm glad you did it, and you're getting some great reactions it's gotta feel so good :eusa_clap
     
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    Congrats!!!! That's awesome!
    I just had a massive coming out as well this weekend. Four of the most important people in my life and all at once! And wow what a liberating experience it was! Trust me, you're gonna have the best sleep of your life tonight! Good luck with your mum!
     
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    your bro's mad cool. and best of luck with your mom!

    p.s.- i have the "fuck it" attitude every day, and yes, its pretty damn awesome!
     
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    thanks man....i had to after our convo last night.
     
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    you're now at the point of no return hehe
     
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    what everybody else said, Dan. Every time a closet door closes, a new star appears in the heavens.....
     
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    That's awesome! Congrats!!! Your brother seems pretty cool :slight_smile:
     
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    (*hug*) Dan, you're awesome :slight_smile: