I went to the ballet with my friend Kara and we started talking about crushes. Apparently, one year ago I said I knew A guy who I could tell all my secrets to. I told her this was a lie and that I was in denial then. She asked me "what denial?" I replied saying that I was pan. It went really smoothly and nothing changed in our relationship!
Believe it or not, it usually does go smoothly and nothing changes. It's actually quite rare for people to go berserk, disown you and make your life hell. I hope you feel great about coming out to your friend and I hope it makes your relationship with her better and stronger. Well done! I'm pleased for you. (!)
