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Confused and tried to talk to my partner...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by PrivateLeigh, Jul 20, 2016.

  1. PrivateLeigh

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    Location:
    Sydney
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Questioning
    So, after spending all of my life believing I'm straight (even though boys and men didn't "do it" for me, to the point that I came to believe I'm just hard to please.) I've recently begun to realise that I might be bi or lesbian. To cut a long story short I was out with a friend one night, got more than a bit drunk and ended up kissing a girl for the first time...and I LIKED it...too much not question it once I'd sobered up.
    Anyway, after battling with how I felt about that kiss and struggling with being very confused I tried to talk to my partner of 20 years about it. I told him about "the kiss" and everything went a bit pear shaped after that. Again, keeping it short he's now worried I'm going to cheat on him and run off with a woman. I can understand how he feels, but now I'm wishing I hadn't told him anything and I've always told him everything.
    I've also confided in a friend about how I feel, which was great. BUT, it looks like I'm in for a rough journey for a while...:icon_sad: