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First Coming Out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by PurpleTomato, Mar 13, 2009.

  1. PurpleTomato

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    My first coming out was kinda funny (well maybe it's one of those you-had-to-be-there events) but this is basically a rundown of what happened. This happened last september or october.

    I was IM-ing to a good friend of mine who's bi. She's part of the GSA in my school and she goes all out for Day of Silence etc. She jokes about having a gaydar. We were having a deep discussion talking about homosexuality throughout history, in different cultures, and its causes...

    Me: Remember you said you had a gaydar last year in chem? You could totally get a vibe when travis and trev walked by during lab?
    Her: Yeah. they are totally a secret couple.
    Me: Well point your gaydar at me. Catch anything?
    Her: Nope. its all clear.
    Me: I think it needs a tune up.
    Her: Are you trying to tell me something?
    Me: NO, REALLY?!
    Her: OMG!!!!! you came out!
    Me: yeah. just dont tell anyone.
    Her: I won't. and btw, my gaydar only works for girls xD
    Me: erm herm.

    anyway. after typing that, it sounds like the corniest thing ever. just thought i'd share.
     
  2. biisme

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    I liked it. :slight_smile:

    And, even though it was a while ago, congrats! I see that you've come out to more people since then.
     
  3. MisterBeet

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    That's sweet. My first coming out went something like this:
    I pulled a friend aside after band practice
    Me: You know how we were watching Will & Grace yesterday?
    Her: Yeah.
    Me: You know how you were talking about how much like Will and Grace we are?
    Her: Yeah. (She's lively isn't she?)
    Me: Well, you were more right than you may have noticed.
    *fifteen seconds of silence as I nervously wait for her to get it*
    Her: NUH-UH!!!!!
    *10 minute hug*
    Her: I knew the universe wouldn't deny me gays! I love you!
    Me: Well that's too bad.

    We plan on getting an apartment in New York when we graduate from college. We'll probably be going to the same one. She's about 3 or 4 years older than me and I would marry her if I didn't like boys. :slight_smile:
     
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    lol haha awww that`s cute you guys. Thanks for sharing :slight_smile: and congrats!!
     
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    Thats awesome, congrats!!
     
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    That's so funny! Congrats by the way!
     
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    thats great welldone guys
     
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    awwwww...They both were really cute!
     
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    Pahahah! I love this coming out story!
     
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    i just love the gaydar only working on girls you think u got the upper hand and get zinged lol real cute :grin:
     
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    lol that was great
     
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    LOL that was cute! i loved it....